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My fitness routine #growth

Lol....this one time, I tried settling for less and lost so much weight (lesson: don't settle for less). Aren't some guys just cowards? Listen ladies, do not let anyone take your feelings for a joke and leave without giving any explanation, always remember that you deserve the best, do not give anyone the opportunity to play with your emotions and go free, like nun happened. Anyways, this is a topic for another time, cuz I'm bout to start spitting profanities.
     So, I went for. Sleepless nights and appetite loss for a total b.s nigga, to toothache. Pulled two teeth, couldn't eat a week, then I went to fever. By the time these were done, I went from 58kg to 54.3kg. Total deflation. DEFLATION!. It was so sad, I looked sick, my clothes didn't fit anymore. My butt and hips *pooof*. It was so surreal. That's some emotional sturv you know.
      But then I got back on my grind. My inspiration? My birthday. It was like three weeks to and I can't  afford…

HOW PRACTICAL ARE SELFCARE THREADS?

Like I said in my last post, I decided to open an instagram account for self-care threads and other tips, generally girls related issues. They mostly talk about loving yourself, being nice to yourself, being positive, being confident, accepting your flaws, and appreciating your imperfections......and a whole lot of things.
       But then, we should ask ourselves how practical are these thing? On a scale of 1-10, I'd say 2....why?
       It gets busy, you get busy, between sleeping in the early hours of the morning, waking up 5hours later, getting ready for classes, having 7 or 8 hours classes with just an hour break, you get back to your dorm, really tired, but then you've got to cook, do a little decluttering, keep up with your social, talk to your parents, probably have a 1hr nap cuz your head may be throbbing, then you wake up and it's 8 o'clock.....what! You may take sometime to boot to be fully awake, drink enough water, eat healthy, you've got assig…

A little fickle spice : #selfcare & #selflove + 10 affirmations.

Yes, it is a thing. And it's all about you!  You!! You!!! You!!!!. I mean if your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete. You've got to take care of your mind and body, it's the only place you have to live. It is very essential to take time to do what makes your soul happy and keeps you at peace.
        Two major things that affect how your day goes, regardless of being able to control the events that may take place are: Your state of mind and your self-esteem (confidence).
        Selflove is more about things that have to do with your state of mind, the way you think, anxiety, depression, irritability or even stress. So, showing yourself self love helps you relax and think better.
         Affirmations are also a critical part of this. It doesn't just involve saying it to fulfil all righteousness, you say it over and over until you believe it and it stays with you all day. You say it, you feel it and it becomes a part of you.
         I'm…

LETS TALK MY BIRTHDAY OUTFITS

So, last week Sunday was my birthday and I'm so grateful to God for everything. And once again, I want to thank everyone who sent messages, called and posted on their timelines and statuses ,y'all are amazing. 
        My photoshoot oh! my photoshoot, I do not know how it happened, but it did and it was amazing.          Initially, I had no plans at all, like I knew there was gon be a shoot, I just didn't know what to do yet. So I wanted something dramatic, with lots of costumes and stuff, then I wanted something up close you know, show a little skin....then I wanted something African.....and the last idea was something boss-ish.        And boom!! It was may, and I still hadn't decided what I wanted to do. But then I had this dinner dress my mom got me for no reason, and then I had this white jacket my roomie called medivial and said I looked like someone from England in the 60s. And I also had this cute and sexy nightie that I always feel good in....you know... *sob*.…