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How to do more of what's meaningful in 2018


        Hey guys, Happy New Year!, yeah I know it's pretty late, but hey it's all good.
      Anyways, I planned to post earlier than this but, well, certain things are beyond my control. And am I the only one who did absolutely nothing meaningful with January. *sigh*. As long as January seemed to be, the only productive thing I did was matriculate. And uhh, gained a few pounds....(if that counts as being productive.).
       So how to be more productive and do more for yourself this year.

1. Make a journal. 
        Ok. First step, write down everything you hope to achieve this year, like eve....ry....thing, and then, arrange them in order of priority, and how possible it really is. And remember nothing mediocre(tell yourself the truth a little). Make it a mantle, and always strive towards the ones at the top.

2. Get comfortable with the word 'no'
        Personally, I forget the word 'no' when asked to do something. I guess there's a still a few people who want to see people happy, or maybe not wanting to let anyone down, even at their own discomfort. But sometimes, saying no doesn't make you a bad person. You can say no and totally be good person. Saying 'yes' to something, means saying 'no' to something else which may be important to you. So get back in the drivers sit of your life and say a very big nuh-uh to anything you know makes you feel uncomfortable.

3. Making commitments.
     Learn to agree with the right things. As much as we learn to say 'no' the word 'yes's shouldn't be totally deleted. It's what you agree to doing that matters. It may be opportunities aligned to school, or work perhaps. Saying yes to the right things, gives us a better opportunity to expand who we are and explore. So before making a commitment, slow down and think about what you're committing to before you do it.

4. Be conscious of your everyday choices. 
          Your eating habits, thoughts pattern, or may be the way you communicate. Take your time to watch what you're probably doing too much, or less and make an effort to change them. Don't be monotonous.

5. Quiet time and mediation. 
        The world is a very busy place, i think, and sometimes we just get lost along the way and we lose ourselves to a constant routine, and it's both boring and tedious. So every once in a while, treat yourself and meditate a little, have a quiet and private time too yourself, find your inspiration, and do what makes you happy. You owe it to yourself.

6. Get back on your grind. 
     My personal motto: when you look good you feel good. Don't get your glams on for anybody's attention, do it to make you feel good, cuz when you feel good, no body can mess with your vibe. Positive vibes give a positive day in return. So get back on your grind babes and don't let no one rain in your parade.
     Have a successful year ahead, I wish you all the best. Oh and for updates pictures (I'm not so proud of) follow me on
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Quote of the week:
Walk away from things that give you bad vibes, there's no need to explain or make sense of it. It's your life!

Songs of the week:
Towers - Little Mix.

Thrill of it all- Sam Smith.

Palace- Sam Smith.

Seveenteen- Alessa Cara.

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